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The Sew Flipping Extra Podcast
Welcome to the The Sew Flipping Extra Podcast
A platform for me to Express, Explore, Connect and over all be Sew Flipping Extra… why because that brings me joy.
I'd like to describe this podcast as a Self-Improvement podcast. I mostly hope to make you laugh but i'm not gonna lie, you might cry too, as well as think and grow through conversations with other experts in their field.
The Sew Flipping Extra Podcast
EP 64: Christmas After Grief: Finding New Traditions and Happiness!
🎄 Christmas, Kindness, and Life Lessons 🎄
In this heartfelt episode of The Sew Flipping Extra Podcast, I reflect on the bittersweet journey of celebrating Christmas after loss. From honoring my dad's memory on the anniversary of his passing to rediscovering the joy of the season, this episode is filled with lessons on grief, growth, and finding happiness in the little things.
I also share some personal stories, including a random act of kindness in Tesco (yes, Frosties are expensive!) and the importance of being unapologetically yourself, no matter what others think. Plus, we dive into creating new traditions, spreading holiday cheer, and why the goal in life is to find what truly brings you joy.
Whether you're navigating grief, searching for inspiration, or just looking for some Christmas vibes, this episode is for you.
Highlights include:
✨ Lessons my dad taught me about joy and authenticity
✨ How to create a Christmas you’ll love, even after loss
✨ The power of kindness and connection during the holidays
Pour yourself a glass of Baileys (or your favorite Christmas drink), sit back, and let’s chat about finding joy and being unapologetically extra.
💛 Stay extra and spread that festive cheer!
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So I actually cannot believe that it's Christmas in a few days. What's the date? The date is the 21st today. It is Christmas in four days and it is a new year in I don't know a bit over a week. This year has gone so fast. I feel like no matter who you talk to, everyone's saying the same thing this year has gone so fast. And so what is? I don't even know what I want to talk about today.
Speaker 1:I just really wanted to record this podcast because I'm actually going on a spa, a spa night to a hotel with my mum that my brother paid for for us. Uh, for last year it was our Christmas present and, yeah, I'm really excited. You know what? It's funny because when he first gave it to me, I was like with mum and I was I'm so rude, I'm sorry, I love you, mum, if you ever, even ever listen to me. I was like with mum and I was I'm so rude, I'm sorry, I love you, mum, if you ever, even ever listen to my podcast. I was like I don't want to go, I don't want to spend the night with my mum, I just want to go by myself, but I'm actually really excited to spend the night with my mum. She picked me up at six o'clock this morning.
Speaker 1:We went and done our Christmas shopping which is something we do every year now, um, and we get to the shops super duper early, absolutely love it. It's empty. It's empty, it feels like, it feels like vip, and then done, got sure to get some stuff in halsden, like you know, the meats and all of that stuff and then went home. We've gone back to our houses to get ready and then, yeah, she's coming to pick me up in about an hour and then we're gonna head down there super duper excited, gets a little bonding time with my mum and all that like when. So, yeah, I'm really excited about that, but I don't.
Speaker 1:I feel like I feel like during the week I had topics. Clearly, obviously, if you guys come here every week, you know I don't really write shit down. I try and remember it, so I can't remember what it was that I wanted to talk about, but here we are. So I feel like it's going to be a bit of a recap. So, whether you guys like it or not, it is what it is, because I keep saying send me stuff in it and you don't. So here we are. This week what happened?
Speaker 1:So on the 19th that was two days ago it was my dad's nine year anniversary, do you know? Let me do the intro. Let's do the intro and let's come back and start fresh. Hi guys, welcome to another episode of the so flipping extra podcast, a platform for me to express, explore and connect and be so flipping extra why? I hear you ask small darlings. That's what brings me joy, so I'm gonna keep doing it. So, without further ado, let's get into the rest of the podcast and figure out what we're gonna actually talk about today. There's gonna be a point made at the end to stay.
Speaker 1:So, yeah, uh, the 19th was the anniversary of my dad's passing nine years. Nine years ago and I think a lot of people, if you've been following me for a while, like like you know, like obviously every year, every Christmas, like I post up about Miss you Dad and then when we actually buried him, which was like I think it was like the 21st of January, I do a little post I don't do it as much now, I'm weaning off that one and then obviously his birthday. So he gets three shout outs a year. So a lot of people know that my dad's passed um, but I think this time a lot more people were. I kind of brought a few more people in as to how, and let me actually read the post I I done. Actually, the year after he passed away, I created a post and I photoshopped his picture into the post because I was like I can't have any more pictures with my dad. So I photoshopped a picture of him Like it's like you can tell it's a, it's a, you can tell it's photoshopped, but it's also like a transparency picture. So it looks like a spirit because, like the way I see it is, my dad's always there. I feel him, I feel his energy, I feel his vibe, like I feel, you know, there's certain situations that have happened in life where I've just felt he, him near me and around me and everything. So I photoshopped him in and I had put the post cherish the time now. So, when it's gone, the memories keep you warm. And the post that I actually put with that was just saying today is night. Today, 19th of December, is nine years since we lost our dad.
Speaker 1:Watching someone take their last breath from a random heart attack after your family Christmas dinner hits you differently and that's basically what happened. That is, literally we were all at my sister's house for our Christmas dinner. Uh, we would have a annual Christmas dinner because, like we have half brothers and sisters and stuff, and it was at my sister, my half sister's house for this one and he had said he hadn't didn't feel well after dinner and he went upstairs to lie down and Caden, and we took it, we told him to come out of the bedroom and go in the sitting room, and that was very, very lucky that we told him to do out of the bedroom and go in the sitting room, and that was very, very lucky that we told him to do that. So he was sitting on the chair with Callie and Evie Evie's, nicola's daughter and then all of a sudden they came downstairs and they was like we're gonna do something really funny, like we was just like what? And he's like what are you doing? So we've gone upstairs and my guy's having a heart attack.
Speaker 1:Oh well, we realized it was a heart attack. I don't even know if we realized straight away, maybe we did um, and we called ambulance straight away, had to get him on the floor, was trying to resuscitate him and yeah, I just remember seeing his chest rise and fall for the last time. And you know you're counting, you're waiting, you're waiting, you're waiting. Come on, do it again, do it again, do it again. So if you do it again, it's okay and it never happened. It's hard, man, like that. Shit hit me hard, like that vision took so long to get that vision out of my head. Um, it's different. And so then after that, I went on oh, I lost it.
Speaker 1:I went on to say after that so my next post was a picture of him and I said here's the lesson that I learned. So this is a lesson from seeing someone take the last breath. Life can be fucking short, so make sure you have a good time. Next post don't stress over shit. You can't control, you can't change people. So let them be their authentic selves, and that is something that I talk about on this podcast a lot. Not this is not related to my dad but let people be who they are. But how you found them is let them be that person. If they want to change, they'll change.
Speaker 1:I think we spoke about that last week and all of these are a picture of my dad, these posts, and then the next post is like a picture of his grave when, when he first passed away, him holding callie and him me and caden in another picture. And the biggest lesson my daddy taught me is dance like no one is watching and who gives a fuck what they think. Do do what brings you joy always. So today we raise a glass not only for my daddy or for our own loved ones that we've lost, but more importantly, for yourselves. Don't worry, I'm very much aware that I'm in the first person, second person, third person in all of this, so allow me in it. So, yeah, more importantly for yourself, celebrate ourselves and those we love while we're still here to bask in it. It's like that whole.
Speaker 1:Give people flowers while they can smell them. Do you know? Some men only receive flowers when they're dead. That's crazy. So give people their flowers. Like physically, mentally, emotionally, give people their flowers. Tell people when they're dead. That's crazy. So give people their flowers like physically, mentally, emotionally, give people their flowers. Tell people when they're doing something good. Tell people that you love them, because when they're gone, that's all you want to tell them. All you want to do is have them call your phone and chat shit on your phone because they can't do it anymore like I'd be, like, oh, dad's calling me again, oh, he's gonna chat shit. I wish that motherfucker could call me and chat shit on the phone to me. Not gonna lie, I wish you could. But, um, I miss him, man and it's I don't even know. Like I say it's hard but we just keep moving in it like we just keep moving, we just keep making the most. And, like I said, what my dad has taught me in life, it wasn't even a physical lesson that he sat down and taught me, it's just from observing this guy.
Speaker 1:Like my dad did not care what you thought about him. He went in that party and he'd be like, why is no one dancing? He started the party, he was that party star. He would get in the middle of the dance floor and just start dancing and then people would be around the edges oh, look at steve. There goes steve again. Huh, what's he doing? What is he doing? Me and my friends, we still laugh. But he had this dance move and we do the dance move to today like, oh, do you remember my dad's dance move? Like it was like some wooden leg dance, but it's it's, it brings us joy now. And my dad done that dance move like it was a thang. He didn't care. He doesn't care, didn't care what you, what you think, um, and do things because it brings you joy. Just do what makes you happy.
Speaker 1:People are going to judge you. They're going to keep judging you. They're going to always judge you and then they're not going to judge you. Does it matter whether they judge you or don't? Does it matter who judges you? Just keep, just do what you love. Do what you love.
Speaker 1:And I really feel like over the last few years, I really have to pay homage to those lessons that I've learned from my dad, because I feel like that's what encapsulates the so flipping extra live show, that's what encapsulates the so flipping extra podcast. That's what encapsulates extra as my brand. It's like be extra, because for too long I wasn't being extra and and I felt it I felt like I wasn't being myself. Um, and don't get me wrong, it doesn't mean that it was only. It's only in the last four years I've been being myself, I've been her, but then there was that. It was the whole. Can't be her too much.
Speaker 1:Or someone made me feel bad for being her too much, like, oh, what are you doing? Why are you doing that? I'd be like I don't know, like you know, oh, let me dim myself down, because I didn't realize I was, it was doing too much. No, there were gonna be days where I might even dim it down just a little bit. I don't know. I, I don't know.
Speaker 1:But more importantly and more than ever now, this is me, here I am. Say what you want, I don't care, I don't care. Like are you paying my bills though? Oh, you're paying my bills and I need to turn it down a bit. I'll get paid to turn it down. Okay, cool, I might consider it.
Speaker 1:But, um, yeah, being your authentic self, and it's so beautiful because I get a lot of feedback from people, um, I get a lot of people. Let me know how I make them feel, or how they view me and they see me, and when someone tells me that they just my energy and my aura and my, what I give off and my, that I just am so authentic in their eyes, because I can only say in their eyes, because that's how I want to come across. But when they feel that and they receive that, do you know how wonderful that makes me feel? Because I do it for myself, but the fact that someone else gets somewhat something from it just fills my heart so much. It makes me feel so, so, so full. It makes me feel so full. It makes me feel like I've, like I'm living to my purpose, and I don't even know what my purpose is, but I'm doing. I feel like this is it.
Speaker 1:I feel like my purpose is out here just to to bring people joy and to to let people think about how they view themselves and to make people think about not caring how people view them, to to make people care less about materialistic things and that was another conversation I had with someone, or someone had with me this week. That is like they love the fact that I show up as I am. This is me and I don't mind that some days I look like I do look like the homeless person down the street, like literally, oh my god, guys. One day last week someone came to my studio and he got out the car and as he walked out I forgot that I just couldn't be bothered that morning and he told me it was like his eyebrows just raised, like wow, and I was like, ok, cool, because that's me. But and the thing is, the reason why I don't care is because when I care and by me, not caring doesn't mean I don't care about myself, it's just not important. There are more important things about what. If my leggings match my socks, match my shoes, match my jacket and my hair is done like, what am I doing? For what purpose does it serve?
Speaker 1:I love dressing up, I love looking amazing, but I also love being comfortable. When I'm at my studio and it's freezing cold and I've just come from the gym because I've pumped energy into myself this morning, sometimes I just don't care, because when I show up, I show up, I show up and I show off and I show out. And then some days I'm just like, yeah, I'm just gonna be cool today, like this low impact energy. Um, yeah, and and I, I don't care like I'm, I don't have to wear makeup every day, I don't have to have the best looking outfit on every day, um, I don't have to have the most expensive things.
Speaker 1:I will scream from the rooftops that, yeah, I got my dress. I got that beautiful dress that I wore to gigsmas that looked like a freaking million dollars I don't care what anyone says, maybe 100, but whatever, it's given million, I've paid 10 pound for that and I just customized it myself, like I upcycled it, altered it slightly myself. I didn't did not want to pay 100 pound for a dress, a big old ball gown. When am I gonna wear it again? That dress I actually want to wear on christmas day, but I just feel like it could be a little bit uncomfortable. But yeah, these things are not important like our world, not even our country. Our world is going to shit. All right.
Speaker 1:What's important to you, focus on that, and what is important to me is just feeling amazing, being happy and spreading joy, making people feel good, making people love, making people feel good, making people love themselves, making people feel good about themselves, making people smile. You know I studied happiness. I actually I actually used to study happiness. I wanted to be a happiness coach, and so I used to get books on happiness. I've got loads of them now. I used to buy books on happiness and I used to.
Speaker 1:I done a training course on happiness as well, and that's why my brand colors are yellow as well, like I always have yellow in my brand colors, and I was saying to you lot last week that I'm re. I'm rejigging my brand, I'm redoing my colors. I'm re-jigging my brand. I'm redoing my colours, I'm rebranding and, yeah, the logo is going to be yellow. It has to be my profile picture on my Instagram. Although I'm wearing the Ikea outfit, the background is yellow, and that's for a reason because yellow reminds me of happiness. Like you know, the first emoji that we ever had was the smiling face, and it was always yellow because it's the color of the sun, and sun makes people happy. The sun makes me happy. When I see the sun, I'm like it's gonna be amazing day. What can go wrong when the sun's shining? So, yeah, that's why I use yellow. Um, so, yeah, what else am I talking about this week? I think that's it. I think we've said enough.
Speaker 1:Um, christmas in a couple days is sorry if you guys can hear that I'm shaking a bottle of ginger. Someone gave this to me yesterday. I wonder if it's not. Let me taste it. Let's taste this together. Asmr, that ginger kicks. Oh, my god, that ginger kicks. Yes, that needs some rum in there.
Speaker 1:Guys, what is your drink? What is your Christmas drink? So mine is Baileys, straight up and down. Today I bought three bottles of Baileys what and what? That's not even enough. I would have bought more, but well, actually okay, let me be be honest. I bought one bottle of baileys and then I bought there's this cream rum which tastes just like baileys. I think I'm gonna have to do a taste test over christmas just to show you guys. But I bought that as well and I really like it. But they only had two bottles. I was very, very disappointed that they only had two bottles left.
Speaker 1:But, yeah, um, whenever kc's you're drinking that, he's like, uh, okay, christmas is coming. So when he saw me drinking it about a month ago, he was like, um, it's, it's not christmas yet. And I was just like, uh, but we're getting in the christmas spirit and if the tree's up the tree was definitely up before december because carly put it up I said if the tree's up, the christmas spirit is up, let's go. So, yeah, bailey's is my christmas drink. Let me know what yours is. And, um, what else? Uh, I don't you know.
Speaker 1:I really feel like I'm gonna end this podcast and I'm gonna be like oh, my god, I want to talk about this and I want to talk about that. Do you know what? I'm not gonna keep this long, just be long, just for the sake of it, and I just really want to wish everyone a happy Christmas because by the next podcast, which will be next Sunday, christmas would have gone. So if you are celebrating Christmas, have an amazing Christmas. Whatever you do, spread love and joy. Have an amazing time, like I hope.
Speaker 1:I met a woman. Actually. I spoke, I was speaking somewhere and I spoke slightly about Christmas and how I felt that I never I'd lost my dad a few days before Christmas and I felt it hard to celebrate because it just always felt like a sad time and I started allowing that to take over and over the last few years I've said, said, oh, I don't enjoy Christmas, I just don't enjoy Christmas. And it's not that I don't enjoy Christmas, I don't enjoy where my space feels it feels really I feel lost over Christmas. If I'm being honest Now I know I've spoken about this, so for anyone new, it's like my dad passed away and a couple of years later I lit up with my children's dad and I was very much connected with his family in the sense of you know, christmas, sundays, birthdays they're very close anyway.
Speaker 1:So whenever there was a party like Christmas, I would go to their house for Christmas um, like Christmas morning to the afternoon and then go to my mum's later. But I had so much fun at their house because it was like young and exciting. That's where all the young people were. So, to be honest, I would leave my kids there, like my kids never came to, like we would go to my nans actually. So my kids never came to my nans because there was no young people there. For them, all the energy and the vibrancy was at their dad's mum's house. So you know, obviously when I stopped going out with him, I didn't have that like I might pass around with him. I didn't have that Like I might pass around the house, but I didn't stay. I didn't want to ever outstay my welcome. Um, although I was told I was welcome, I just didn't want to outstay my welcome.
Speaker 1:So then it's like a couple of years after that or a year after that, my nan stopped doing Christmas dinner. I think we obviously went into lockdown and I just felt so lonely, like I would take my kids to, like I just didn't want to do anything, I didn't want to go anywhere, like I didn't want to just be in someone else's house, and I always felt that like my mum's house was just like the energy was quite boring and I'm like I just want to be vibrant, I want to sing, I want to sing karaoke, I want to play charades, like I want to watch movies, but like chat shit at the same time. And that energy just wasn't at my mum's, which is, you know, fair enough that everyone's is the same, everyone's energy is the same. So I just felt really like this is not the Chris, this is not the way I want to spend my Christmas, so I'd rather just stay in my house. And my mum's just never let me stay in my house. She's like, no, you're not gonna do that, I'm sending someone to pick you up. And so I just said I didn't enjoy Christmas. But I do, I really do. Like I enjoy my kids being happy and us having our little time and singing in the mornings, like that's our little thing that we've created now, having a little Christmas breakfast and all of that. I enjoy being around. I just enjoy being around friends and family who give me the energy that I want to give. And I think I said this last week if it's not, if it's not fun and drinks and dancing and laughing, and I'm not interested. So, yeah, I've created, I've started to create the places and the pockets of joy that I get on Christmas day because I do enjoy it.
Speaker 1:And, um, I went off on the tangent. But there was a woman who heard me talk about this you know how Christmas is for me and she said that she she was like wow, really touched me because her mum passed away on the same day, like maybe less years than my dad. So it wasn't she wasn't yet at nine years, like maybe five years. And she said I can really relate because me and my sisters are the same, like we just don't enjoy it anymore. But she was also saying cause I was saying to her like this I really want to change that narrative and enjoy it. And she said that they did the same thing, they're going to enjoy it. And I sat down and I held her hand and I said listen, and she has a daughter as well. And she said her daughter's coming down. So they just want to do the most. And I said do the absolute most.
Speaker 1:Your mum, my dad, they wouldn't want us to not enjoy because they're not here. Because they're here, we just can't see them. And you know what was. If, did your mum enjoy Christmas? She's like yeah, I said so. Did my dad, like he just went around to whoever's house and he picked up food from this one, picked up food from that one and he enjoyed himself and he had a drink, and like he enjoyed family at Christmas. So you know, same with your mum. She enjoyed what she enjoyed.
Speaker 1:So why are we not enjoying it like? We have to change that? So please, this year, do if you do anything for yourself and your family. Enjoy your time because you want to enjoy your time. But don't not enjoy your time because your mum's not here, because she, there's no way. And the same my dad, they would not want us to be happy, there's no way. Oh, I don't want anyone to be happy because I'm not there. Damn them like this, just not gonna happen. That's not what they would want.
Speaker 1:So, enjoy it, have fun, have fun with your, with your sisters and your family, and create. Create the new christmas that you want we have. We have choices, guys, like if you, if you, if you go to the same place every christmas and it's just tradition to go to someone's house for christmas, but you don't enjoy it, you have a choice don't go there. Everything is about creating your own happiness and if you feel that you have to go there. You go there for less time and then you go on to the next thing that you want to go to that brings you joy, and that's what I've chosen to do for my Christmas. And, yeah, it feels absolutely amazing and if it works for you, it works for you until it doesn't, and when it stops working for you, you change it up, because the goal in life is to do what brings you joy. Just goal in life is to do what brings you joy. The goal in life is to do what brings you joy. The goal in life is to do what brings you joy. The goal in life is to be happy. The goal in life is to smile. The goal in life is to bring other people joy, and you can't bring other people joy if you're not joyful. You can't bring other people joy if there's nothing joyful happening for you. So find your joy, find what brings you joy, find your happiness, find your tribe, find, just find it, and just have the best fucking time, because we don't know how long we got and that's it. I knew I would close my laptop and think of something else. I wanted to say so to.
Speaker 1:This morning I went shopping with my mum and we was in tesco's and I went down the aisle. I went down the the cleaning, cleaning product aisle. I like to just see cleaning products, don't like cleaning, but I'm like, oh, I wonder if there's any new cleaning products that I want to buy. So I've gone down the aisle and sometimes you know, when you feel like you're guided to go somewhere, you're guided to help someone or guided to be somewhere. Because I got down the aisle and I stopped at the scrub daddies and was looking at scrub daddy, scrub mommy, scrub kitty, like I was just like why do we need so many scrubbies? But they are good.
Speaker 1:And then I heard, oh, excuse me, miss, and I looked over and there was a guy walking towards me. He's a black guy, a light skin or mixed race guy, and he had freckles all in all over his face like loads of freckles, and I was just like god striking. I love freckles, but I could see also see that he was made possibly homeless or down and out, and he was holding a bottle, a box of um Kellogg's cornflakes no, not cornflakes, frosties and a carton of milk, not carton, a jug, a bottle of milk, what do you even call them these days anyway. And so I said hey, and then he said, um, can you help me buy these? And I said you mean pay for them? And he's like, yeah, please. And I was like, yeah, cool, come on.
Speaker 1:But I thought about it for a second and I felt shitty that I thought about like yeah, like I'm out here with my big shopping, like I can't say, oh sorry sir, I can't. Like I'm out here doing shopping, I'm out here buying food, um, but my first thought I stumbled at first and I was just like I don't even understand why I stumbled, like it was, it's not even a big deal. And so I went to the tills with him and we put it through. And it's funny because when he first went over there, I could see the woman that worked there. Obviously she. She's looking at him like, and she's like, oh, you have to pay over there because this is card only. And then he said, oh, this lady's gonna pay for me. And I was like, yeah, I'm gonna pay. And she was like, oh, oh, okay, and I felt her energy change and shift slightly like, oh, that's nice, so I'm putting it through.
Speaker 1:But their tools were really slow, so I scanned one and then it doesn't look like he put it down. It hadn't scanned it, so I scanned it again. And then we scanned the corn plate. So the woman's like oh no, let me help you, because that one is that one is on there twice and it was so funny because it was like you weren't. You didn't seem that kind and helpful to him before you realized I was paying for his food, but whatever anyway.
Speaker 1:So we put it through and, um, he goes to take it and I said here, take your receipt, so they don't tell you nothing on the way. I said what are you gonna? How are you gonna eat it? He's like I don't even know. And I thought, if I'd thought I'd have been like let me buy you a bowl. But I had, he's like no, no, like I don't know, but it'd be fine. I said, oh, my god, and I'm looking around like a bowl's just gonna mysteriously come out of thin air and I was like, oh, hold on, I'm sorry I don't have a bowl to give you as well. Um, he said no, no, it's fine.
Speaker 1:I said Merry Christmas and he said oh, why am I feeling emotional? It was his face. He was just like you know when it's, you know when everyone looks at you like shit. And someone's actually seen you and I touched him. When I said that as well, I touched his arm, I said Merry Christmas and he said, um, oh, he said Merry Christmas to you too and it's just like it just felt so nice and I felt really good and I felt like I was drawn to that aisle because babes don't need no cleaning products.
Speaker 1:I do love new cleaning products, but I don't need any cleaning products and I really. And then it's like after I walked back and I grabbed my trolley and I never went back to the aisle and I know. And then literally seconds later I saw my mum and I said, oh, mum, I just think really nice, I feel so good. And they said why was I on the cleaning aisle? She's like, even she looked at me like I don't know why on earth would you be on the cleaning aisle. Even she looked at me like I don't know why on earth would you be on the cleaning aisle. I said I was drawn to the cleaning aisle, mum. I said the universe sent me to the aisle to help that guy because there was no one else on the aisle. There was no one else for him to ask. It was just me. He came straight out the aisle and it could not be that, but I really want to hope that I was drawn to me and I helped him, and I hope I was the first person he asked and helped him so that he realized that there are nice people out there and people want to do nice things.
Speaker 1:Caveat though fucking hell, kennox is expensive. Frosties is expensive. Now, it wasn't even. It wasn't even a massive, massive box frosties are three pound 55. Oh, of course, I was never going to ask them babes, do you want to go get the Tesco's own brand? But yeah, I felt really, really good.
Speaker 1:And do you know what? If you could do something nice to someone? Do something nice, because we're all struggling out here, but some people are 100% struggling more than us If you could do something nice, it doesn't always have to be about spending money. It could be about donating your jackets. It could be about donating coats. It could be buying hats, gloves and scarves. It could be buying. It could be buying someone a meal if you have it.
Speaker 1:Don't put yourself out, but also don't put some of you lot putting yourself up for your own family. Don't put yourself out. This year I bought my kids presents and that is it. If I can get any more, if I can get, you know, presents for my family, then I will Probably just get a bottle of drink, but I absolutely will no more put myself out. I won't even put myself out for my kids. Maybe I will a little bit Love them little bumper cars, but yeah, peace out, a time down.
Speaker 1:Bit love them little bumper cars, but yeah, peace out. A-town down, guys. West side is the best side. Do I believe that? Absolutely not. Walked outside there was shit on the floor, but do you know what I do believe? Is that? No, do you know what I know? Wherever I'm at the vibe's out, wherever I'm at the vibe's out, I bring a vibe. I always bring a vibe. I love to bring a vibe. I bring a vibe because it makes you not feel good, but more importantly than that, I bring a fucking vibe because it makes me feel good, and it's all about what makes you feel good. So do what makes you feel good. Love you guys. Bye.